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A journey of deconstructing a fundamentalist Christian background we both carry and what the next phase looks like. We discussed evangelicalism, human development, marriage and family.
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Saturday Jan 02, 2021
Saturday Jan 02, 2021
00:37-8:44: Christmas 2020
8:45-27:40: Christmas with and without the Nativity
27:41-32:00: Throwing out the TV
32:00-40:00 Horror Movies
40:00-1:00:16: Demonology
1:00:17-End: Good doctors and Pap Smears
Saturday Dec 19, 2020
Saturday Dec 19, 2020
This is our longest preamble. Sorry, but we made up for it on what you can skip from / to
00:00 - 07:00: Problems with monitoring your sleep and monitoring light waves
06:20 - A shout out to our listeners
07:00 - Christmas pudding
17:00 - Our first live call on the show.....wait....don't go...
17:35 - A week in reflection, frustration, tips on why to turn your camera on at work
25:38 - Steering back into Christmas prep
31:50 - This will be a lonely Christmas. Is that good or bad?
40:45 - What men can learn from women
Friday Dec 11, 2020
Friday Dec 11, 2020
Preamble - Feel free to skip.
15:10: Santa
28:38: Christmas Movies
53:00: Intermission. Ripping on John Calvin; our favorite bollox
57:15: Christmas Weather
1:01:00: A war on Christmas?
Saturday Dec 05, 2020
Saturday Dec 05, 2020
00:00 - 17:00: Worst Christmas Memories
17:00 - 42:00: Best Christmas Memories
42:00-47:17: A tangent on Dentistry
47:17-End: Best Christmas Memories
Email: bridgetteralph@sbcglobal.net with your stories
Saturday Nov 21, 2020
Saturday Nov 21, 2020
00:00 Preamble
08:00 Journey into Debt: The narratives we believed
37:10 Getting out of the hole
1:00:01 We test our conflict skills from last week
1:16:00 Oh, she went there
1:18:50 Media we'd recommend
Next time: Our journey into Evangelicalism
Saturday Nov 14, 2020
Saturday Nov 14, 2020
Pre-Amble: Bus stop stories
07:24: Conversation: How we learned it
17:45: The right environment
32:00: Digital conversation
39:45: Conversation Techniques. Asking questions & Active listening
54:43 : Worst Conversation Examples
1hr: Conflict
- Posture
- Assume positive intent
- Growth Mindset vs. Fixed mindset
- Idea as friend vs. idea as spouse
- Practice
- Mirror back what you think you heard
- When you said/did…, the impact on me was…
- When you said/did…, the story I told myself was…
1hr:30: Postamble (is that even a word?)
Monday Nov 09, 2020
Monday Nov 09, 2020
00:00 Political landscape post election results 07:30 Wild 90’s Bridgette gets mugged 15:45 Booger/Snot stories 23:00 Brian’s weed stories 35:18 Bridgette's drunk story 42:30 Brian’s altercation with a bus shelter on Merrion Road 52:40: Next Time: The Art of Conversion https://youtu.be/087mi1e46us
Wednesday Nov 04, 2020
Wednesday Nov 04, 2020
Iteration 2: We realized our volume wasn't great so adjusted
Episode breakdown:
Berlin Wall Falls, Bridgette wild college years, catches up on the 80's movies
6:23: Fashion
12:30: Music
15:00 Dating & Social Life
24:10 Sex, and the church beginnings
54:00 Drunk meals
55:00 Brian the fat bastard
Saturday Oct 31, 2020
Saturday Oct 31, 2020
Brian and Bridgette talk about experiencing the 80's from two separate continents and environments.
Preamble: Our Hopes and Fears for the podcast
7:40 - How Bridgette experienced the 80s (she missed them)